Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts

Physical activity improves your spirits

You've probably heard of the runner's high, but could you boost your mood and feel happier by simply getting up and moving around more? There's good news from a research study that linked happiness with not only exercise but also non-exercise physical activity, such as standing and walking around the house or office. You may not have to break a sweat to enjoy the psychological benefits of physical activity.

App Reveals How Simple Physical Movement Affects Happiness

Researchers enlisted 10,000 people to use a free mobile phone app and provide data on measures of happiness throughout the day. They were able to capture their physical activity throughout the day by the movement data automatically captured by their smartphones. The study continued for over a year.
Their study found that how often people move around physically during the day, whether or not it is during rigorous exercise, was associated with both being healthier and happier. This can be a good reason to develop the habit of breaking up long periods of sitting with a few minutes of walking rather than waiting until you can hit the gym. In addition to reducing the health risks of sitting, these bouts of physical activity may improve your mood.

Your Phone Knows the Truth About How Physically Active You Are

How do you know how much non-exercise activity you get throughout the day?
It's something researchers couldn't easily capture in past years. They would have to enlist test subjects to wear a pedometer or accelerometer. But now most people carry their smartphone everywhere they go, and those phones include an accelerometer sensor. Your mobile phone knows when you stand up and move around.
You can view your steps and activity throughout the day on a variety of pedometer apps.
Now, researchers can easily know how much a volunteer test subject is moving around during the day, including whether they are moving fast enough to rate it as exercise or whether it is lower-intensity physical activity.
The study used self-reports of what people were doing when prompted during the day as well as the data their phone automatically captures. In this way, researchers could see how physically active each person was in the 15 minutes before they reported their mood.

Can Simply Being Active Boost Your Mood?

The app prompted users to report their mood twice per day at random moments that were at least two hours apart. The researchers found that people were happier when they reported that they were exercising, which was a result also found in previous studies. But the test subjects also reported being happier when the app sensed they had been active.
The researchers found that whether people reported their activity themselves or it was objectively measured by the phone and app, they were more likely to be happier when they were physically active. By using the app, the researchers were able to get reports of mood at random points during the day.
The users also answered surveys about overall mood and life satisfaction covering a longer time frame.

Which Comes First—Physical Activity or Happiness?

An alternative interpretation would be that happier people tend to be more physically active. That sets up a chicken or egg question. This study didn't encourage people to be more physically active to see if that improved their mood. Instead, the subjects simply monitored their mood over time.
All this study can say is that people tended to be happier if they had been more physically active. You might want to experiment on yourself to see whether increasing your physical activity really will improve your mood.

Boosting Your Mood With a Variety of Types of Physical Activity

You may be thinking that the people you see grunting on the treadmill at the gym don't seem to be very happy at that moment. Perhaps it only feels good when they stop? The upshot of this study is that you don't necessarily have to do a type of physical activity you dislike. There are a wide variety of choices. Some of them involve sweat or need athletic skill, but others that don't. You can find activities you can do solo, with friends, or even as part of organized sports.
  • Moderate-Intensity Physical Activity: The researchers noted a previous study that found that 10 minutes of exercise at 60 percent of maximum exertion was enough to improve mood. That is a moderate-intensity level seen by brisk walking, and most people would consider themselves to be exercising rather than just moving around. It's pretty easy to take a brisk walk during your break or lunch time. Other moderate-intensity activities include dancing, water aerobics, using an elliptical trainer, and even gardening. Team sports would include softball and volleyball.
  • Vigorous-Intensity Physical Activity: Exercise that makes you breathe hard, such as running, can be effective in releasing chemicals in the brain to give you a boost. There are many activities that can get your heart pumping. Besides running, cycling, and swimming, you can play sports such as singles tennis, soccer, or basketball, or enjoy martial arts. You may be able to find one you love.
  • Outdoor Walking and Other Physical Activities in Natural Settings: There may also be greater benefits for mood by taking a walk outdoors in a natural environment, as seen in a review of studies. Walking, running, or cycling in a park or through a forested area is a good change of scenery from the gym or urban streets. You may hate the treadmill but discover you love strolling or cycling through nature.
  • Non-Exercise Activity - Getting 10,000 Steps Throughout the Day: This study shows that there may be mood benefits simply by being more active throughout the day, such as when you wear a pedometer or fitness band and aim for a goal 10,000 steps per day. Whether you are taking a sustained walk or sneaking in a few minutes of activity every hour, it's all good.
Don't discount any of these forms of physical activity for improving your mood. Find the one you enjoy the most, or dislike the least, and get started. You may find the key to happiness by moving more in the way you enjoy the most.
Sources:
Coon JT, Boddy K, Stein K, Whear R, Barton J, Depledge M. Does participating in physical activity in outdoor natural environments have a greater effect on physical and mental wellbeing than physical activity indoors? A systematic review. Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health. 2011;65(Suppl 2):A38–A38. doi:10.1136/jech.2011.143586.85.
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Lathia N, Sandstrom GM, Mascolo C, Rentfrow PJ. Happier people live more active lives: Using Smartphones to link happiness and physical activityPLOS ONE. 2017;12(1):e0160589. doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0160589.
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Enjoying life

 was at an entrepreneurial networking breakfast recently and was cornered by another new author at the buffet line. This writer immediately launched into an attack on the publishing industry: “People don’t buy books anymore! Publishing houses are antiquated! Did you have a shitty publicist too? There’s no future in being a writer!”
There I was, enthusiastically about to bite into my chocolate chip muffin and sip my English breakfast tea, when I felt all of my senses being assaulted at once. And at 8 a.m., I just couldn’t handle it. I mumbled, “I need to speak to the host,” left the angry dude standing alone, and gave him a wide berth until I slipped outta there just after 9.
On the subway, I started thinking, What does that writer hope for, exactly? Does he really believe those things? If so, does he think it’s going to get better? He could have been having an off-day, but it didn’t sound like he was enjoying his career (or life) at all.
And that made me sad. Because I know a lot of us feel this way. Like my underpaid friend Louise who wistfully repeats, “When I win the lottery…” and my single friend Evan who’s always going on failed dates and jokes, “Man I can’t wait for my life to begin... where is he?”
Well, your life’s begun, my friend. Whether you realize it or not (or like it or not). Here are some ideas on how to like your life more, just as it is:

1. Focus on what’s going right.

Even if you just got fired or ghosted (and the date went so well!), do you still have the funniest BFF on the planet? Do you still have the comfiest chair in your living room? Are you spending the holidays with a parent or two who did their very best for you? As Wayne Dyer said, “When you change how you look at things, the things you look at change.” Which five things are going right for you right now? List them. And look around. Not everyone is as lucky as you, are they?

2. Count your years and average out what’s left.

My mother-in-law recently told me she was looking at photos of herself with her three kids 20 years ago. At the time of the photos, she was thinking, I'm so overwhelmed! I’m not doing a good job! But now she wishes she had thought, Look at my figure! I was a fun mum! I was in my prime! Will you be thinking something like this in your later years?
I’m 33. If I’m mega lucky and live till 85, I’ve lived over 1/3 of my years. That’s 52 summers left, 52 more Christmases with my husband (if we’re both lucky), and 52 more springs blossoming to life in Central Park. In January, when I turn 34, it’ll be 51. Not so much when you pause and calculate, right? Think of all the things you want to do with your life—what are you waiting for? Today is the youngest you’ll ever be.

3. Decide it’s the best time of your life.

Say it aloud. “Now is the best time of my life.” Say it in the mirror. Repeat it 3-4 times. What comes up for you? Probably the thing that’s been holding you in a negative pattern for some time—your weight, your belief you’re not smart or attractive enough, or your deep fear that maybe other people are just better or more normal than you are.
Guess what? We all feel that way: uncertain, lonely, scared sometimes, a bit of a fraud. It doesn’t stop the clock from ticking or your life from passing. Say to yourself, “I’m willing to release the belief that…..” and share with your reflection what’s holding you back from fully enjoying your life.
My client did this exercise recently and released the fear that she’s too old to begin again in a new career. And it proved to be untrue! She’s been repeating it daily and just landed her first gig as a paid writer. When she told me, my first thought was, “See! The buffet man was wrong! I wish he could hear this and feel better!” But he’d probably be closed off to the news. Where are you closed off? It’s OK. Just know that whatever’s closed was once open. And you can always go back.

Happiness

  • When you are consistently in a happy frame of mind, you are more likely to adopt beneficial habits associated with optimal health, such as eating well, exercising regularly, sleeping better and managing stress
  • More than 200 scientific studies have associated happiness with a reduced risk of heart disease, while at least 160 studies have linked happiness to increased longevity
  • Research suggests you may feel happier and less stressed if you simply smile more, even when you are not in the mood

Gratitude

  • Only 1 in 3 Americans report being “very happy.” More than half say they’re frustrated at work. Nearly 1 in 4 experience no life enjoyment at all
  • Small changes in perspective and/or behavior can add up, and practicing gratitude has been scientifically verified as a way to boost happiness and life satisfaction
  • Gratitude is also a form of generosity, as it involves extending “something” to another person, even if it’s only a verbal affirmation of thanks, and generosity and happiness are neurally linked
  • If your happiness could use a boost, commit to cultivating an attitude of gratitude. It not only boosts life satisfaction, it’s also the single best predictor of good relationships, and benefits both sanity and physical health
  • A dozen different strategies are reviewed, all of which can help you build and strengthen your sense of gratitude











Happiness

Here are some things to consider kicking out this season:

1. Comparison

Who can you finally stop comparing yourself to? Dan Sullivan, founder of Strategic Coach, says you have to “get out of the gap” when it comes to measuring your life by other peoples success—the gap being where you are and where they appear to be. The best way to do this is to consider how far you have come in the last 12 months, to the day.
On this day last year, what didn’t you know, have, or had become yet? Let your progress astound you. Basically, focus on your own sh*t.

2. Exhaustion

Why does everyone seem to be tired all of the time? Go to bed earlier! Take a bath. Read. Unwind. Listen to nature sounds at night on Spotify versus scouring Snapchat. Plan your outfit and bag the night before work so you have a few extra minutes in bed. There is nothing magical or mystical about getting sufficient rest. Commit to a curfew during the week and to being more organized.

3. Excuses

Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of the excuse that you can’t have it. What have you been telling yourself that you can’t have: a promotion at work, a leaner body, a successful blog, a fulfilling relationship, more money?
Ask yourself, “What if my belief about this were not true?” Look for examples of other people who might already be, do, or have some of the things that you want. And flex your curiosity muscle (not your comparison trigger). What does this reveal to you? Does it mean what you want is possible? And therefore, could also be possible for you, if you allow it?

4. Guilt

Guilt is a killer. It’s also proof that you’re living in the past. Guilt is an unhealthy, unconstructive, and totally unnecessary emotion. You’re probably giving it way too much mental space when you don’t have to. Here are 6 things you can stop feeling guilty about, pronto.

5. Regret

Remember this: You’ve always done the very best you could with what you knew at the time and with the resources that you had. That’s all we ever do, every single one of us. Can you give yourself a little break?

6. A grudge

I’ve secretly been holding a grudge against two different people for years now. One is a former passive-aggressive, sexist boss who treated his team really poorly and screwed me out of a commission that I earned. Another is a family member who is really insincere (not to mention cheap) and who acts like a hero. *shudder*
Thinking about either of them can rile me up. So I don’t. Because forgiveness (still!) does not flow easily, I just cut them out of my mind altogether. It works well enough for me. There is no toxicity because there is, well, simply nothing. Next item!

7. Clutter

I love a good Marie Kondo-style cleanup. Just last week, when I couldn’t find an outfit for a Facebook live (because I could not see everything I own in my closet), I went on a rampage and donated two big shopping bags of stuff (including dresses with tags still attached because I never wore them, but clung to the hope that I would out of a sad sense of regret … remind me to read No. 5). It felt so cleansing.
I also have around 313 mini bottles of lotions and potions thanks to a Birchbox membership, an ipsy subscription, and the freebies I get sent as an influencer. I threw out the ones I have tried but don’t like, gave away the ones I won’t use, and am using the rest in order. Use, discard. Use, discard. The orderliness makes me feel like a goddess.
What can you consciously declutter: a bookshelf, bathroom drawer, inbox, an entire scroll or two of your phone of unused apps?
Unhealthy habits remain and fester as long as we don’t shine a light on them. So if you decide to clean your home from top to bottom this spring, don’t forget to clear out the junk in your head too.

Look back with memories not plans

  • While a regret can be phrased either as an action or as an inaction, regrets framed as actions tend to be more emotionally intense than regrets about inactions, but inactions tend to be longer lasting
  • One of the most frequently cited regrets at the end of life is not having the courage to be true to oneself but rather doing what others expected
  • Other common end-of-life regrets include: Working too much, not expressing one’s feelings, not staying in touch with friends, and taking life too seriously and allowing worries to diminish happiness
  • Most men, at the end of life, say they regret missing out on family time because of excessive work
  • At the end of life, many finally realize that happiness is an inside job — a choice, not a side effect of living any particular kind of life, and regret taking life too seriously and allowing worries to diminish their happiness