Becoming successful in life is a big deal! It's an impossible thing to do, because success is wanting more success. However, "settling" down is an achievable target. This is a prejudice, however, the word 'settle' is patently Indian. I'm writing the answer, keeping in mind that you're from India. Most of my answer doesn't depend on it. In fact, there would've been many more options, in life, if you weren't from the country.
Step 1: Settle things with your father
You've to talk with your father about a plan. You've to have a plan first, of course. However, while making the plan you'll have to keep the conversation in your mind. Your father is behaving badly, which is unlikely without another cause. Perhaps an external factor is bothering him. Most often, anger and frustration are outcomes of something deeper. Before you've a plan, you should ask your father the actual reason for his 'behavior'. Assure him, that you're actively trying to construct your life. Tell him that, it will take a couple of years, but you will reach the 'settle' point.
Parents, especially Indian parents, are extremely sensitive about their kids' future. A major part of anxiety comes from the social structure, where colleagues will ask your father about you, on a near-daily basis. How many years would he study? What is the scope after BCA? What is BCA? These are difficult questions to answer, even for the son, let alone the parent. It's rarely a case, where the father doesn't trust the son anymore. You've to make him explicitly trust you. And make him trust you by outlining a career plan.
Step 2: Work on your technical skills
You've the best possible course in the country. A degree in Computer Applications is vague enough to get you an interview with any startup outside the country. And inside, you're syllabus has all the subjects that run the Internet! But, you've to learn these skills. Because, when you get an interview call, that'd be your one shot. And there's no way better to impress, than being good at each of the bullet points in your CV.
Learning a new skill, is a difficult thing. It's difficult to work without a goal in your mind. That brings me to the third step.
Step 3: Be a Freelancer, from tomorrow
Signup at a freelance job site. Try getting projects, which require technical skills that you already have. Have the attitude of learning while you work on the projects. When I was in my 2nd year of Integrated M.Sc. I'd a crisis of my own. I'd only a hobbyist's interest in web development and programming, which meant I'd no skills worth freelance-ing with, in those areas. I'd to settle for being a content writer, which paid less for the effort I put in.
You've the chance to work on high-paying freelance jobs. Freelancer.in isn't a good place to start, but you should look at the list of projects to get an idea on the skills that're you should be working with. Again, your description as Bachelor in Computer Application is very advantageous.
In this step, you'll be in contact with many types of people. Some of them will themselves be mid-level freelancer. Try staying in touch with them, and impress them to ensure a constant flow of projects. Many of these, will get a job somewhere soon! Once they do, they can be your source of advice on how to land a job for yourself!
Step 4: Save money
The money that you earn from step 3, should not be spent at all! Save as much as you can, because when you graduate you will need it. You can decide to do a course and get a certification on a technical skill, but other than that, don't spend the money.
Step 5: Move a big city, land a job
This is where the fantasy part begin. Searching for a job, while staying as a PG, in Bangalore is frustrating, demeaning and sad. It has done great things for many. But, only after they have been through a valley of shit. However, this is necessary. This is also the money consuming stage. That's why, I mentioned the saving in the step 4. Success, at this stage is contingent on how good your CV looks.
The projects that you did in the freelancing stage will be invaluable here! Most graduates will put 3-4 projects. You can put ten! Most graduates write they are fluent in Python, when all they can do is print Hello World. Cite your skills, along with your projects. Highlight which skill was required for which project. Explain it like an expert to an expert!
Even with a CV like this, you might not be called for interviews for months. And at this hypothetical stage, I don't know what to say. I've only heard the success stories. Some after a couple of months, some after a year. This is the stressful stage and there's a not a lot in your hand. Learning new things, at this stage adds a lot of pressure, that's why learn everything that you can, now.
Doing these requires hard work! You cannot be an expert on things, unless you do projects. You cannot do projects, unless something motivates you. That's why the freelancing. However, the last step depends on luck. A lot. It's unfair, that you're forced to work this hard, when many get to 'settle' in a far easier way. Everybody doesn't have advantages to do whatever they like, in whatever time they like. You've to explain this to your father. There are uncertainties, but keep the uncertain part for later. Talk to him, after you earn from your first project.
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